FTIA Reunion Picnic 2010

This was FTIA's anniversary year get-together in Noblesville, Indiana. All the children who have been adopted in forever families (who were at the picnic) placed their hands in paint and then put them on the banner. Each different color of handprint designates where that child was born. All the red handprints were from a child adopted through FTIA from China. They say the banner will be displayed at the home office in Evansville, Indiana.

Hannah and Emily's handprints were put together with the year they where joined with our family and are joined together on the front of the banner with the word "Sisters".

The day was HOT and not many of Emily's group were able to make it but we did have a good time talking and catching up as the kids played together. Hannah's group did not meet at this picnic because we decided to get together later in the year with cooler weather in Southern Indiana. We did meet up and conversed with Betty Betz. She was with Hannah's group in China part of the time and was actually our coordinator from FTIA to help us get Emily when we did. When we were in China to bring Hannah home she was adopting an "older child"-"Sela". I remember thinking in China what a difference in age Hannah and Sela were at that time. Hannah is now the same age Sela was when we were in China. Amazing how fast the years go by. This is a picture at the end of the day of Emily with her "China Sister", Hannah G, and our Hannah with Emily's "China Brother", Jack.


They had games, face painting, tattoos, and of course the famous carrousel ride. Emily loved riding the "horses". I love this picture of her and her dad stealing a kiss and sporting their tattoos on their arms, although Dad's is real. She was so hot the paint on her face ran right down her face and by the end of the day she looked like she had a big smudge of grease or dirt on her face instead of a pretty blue and black dolphin.

"The Hannahs", as they have become known as, having a good time at putt-putt golf with Hannah G's dad, John. I think he did FINALLY get that ball in that hole.

We did not get a picture of our dinner on this evening, but we were thankful to have been able to meet up briefly with one of Hannah's "Chinese Sister's" family, the Magers, for pizza.

It was a very nice relaxing time in air conditioning before heading home 2 1/2 hrs in car seats.

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Driving home, Kevin "Snuffy" and I were discussing how lucky we are to be part of two awesome groups who we consider part of our extended family. All of our children play great together and even the older children in both groups look after and play with the younger kids as a family would do. Our only regret is that we eventually need to say good-bye (and most of the time with tears in our eyes) and drive back home saying to each other how we wished we all lived closer together. We ALWAYS miss them all and keep them close in our our thoughts and our hearts as they are all so very special people and have become so special to us.

July Update-vacation

We went on one of our annual vacations this month. We first met up with Hannah's China sisters (china travel group) in Fishers, Indiana. We started off going to Conner's Prairie. It was a very hot day but the girls seemed to enjoy themselves. They visited a colonial town, where they dipped candles in hot wax and learned about life in the "old days" and an indian village, where the girls practiced their spear throwing and animal trapping.

The girls (Hannah, Aubrianna, Annaliese, Emily, and Violet)

taking a "ride" in canoe made from a tree trunk.

Emily taking a break in the flower garden

The gang spent some time just hanging out at one of the family's home. The girls all played together. It amazes us everytime we get together that the girls never have a moment of shyness or a need to get to know each other since the last time together. They just start talking and playing as if they see each other every day.

All the girls together at the Magers' home.

(Thanks so much for your hospitality)

We seem to always go to breakfast together before we all head our separate ways to go home. This year we went to Cracker Barrell. (And just to say-they have some awesome blueberry pancakes.) After some of the families left for home, we stayed with another family and went to the childrens' museum in Indianapolis. The girls seemed to really enjoy this. They seen real dinosaur skeletons and petrified dinosaur eggs. They played Barbie's fashion designer and dressed as Barbie walking down a runway with photographers. They played in a make believe ice cream parlor and rode an antique carrousel. I think the best part though was when Emily danced in front of a crowd with the Disney Radio DJ and dancers. Everyone was watching her and clapping her on. She must have danced in front of 75 people. She is definately not shy.

After returning home, Hannah had her gymnastics team try-outs, which laster for a week. She was very nervous that week and she did made the team at level 4. We now spend 8 hours a week in the gym learning her routines. Her first gymnastics meet is in September at her home gym. Then she has the opportunity to compete in a meet approximately 1 time per month. YAH!!!

At home, we had a few days left before Kevin needed to return to work so we took the girls to St Joseph Michigan, where there is a nice beach on Lake Michigan. The girls played and played in the water and in the sand that day.

Hannah running through the tide.

Emily getting another bucket of water for her sandcastle.

The next day we relaxed at home and did some doctor appointments.

Then........back to reality, as we know it.

All in all it was a wonderful time spent with family and friends.

We miss them already and can not wait until we see them again in the fall.

June updates

Beautiful sisters!!!

Emily-

Seems to be excited about pre-school next year. Every morning she asks "I go to school, Mama?" Her speech seems to have taken off. She is speaking in really good sentences. It is really great to hear her personality come out. She has had some issues with bloody noses and allergy symptoms. She will be seeing a ENT July 1 to check her tonsils and adnoids. Other than that she continues to be happy and healthy. She does not know a stranger. We kid all the time that she is going to grow up to be a WalMart greater. She seems to love the outdoors but we have noticed she sweats SO much from her head. Just look at the picture below. And that was not a really really hot day!!! Just wait until it gets in the 80's.

Emily drawing and coloring a "flower" with side walk chalk

Every parent needs a picture to use as bribery in their child's future. This is Emily's picture. Snuffy can"t wait until her wedding day!!!

She has found her hips and she knows how to use them!!!

Hannah-

Has finished up the 2nd grade and looking forward to the 3rd grade. She is under the assumption that 3rd graders have cell phones. Sorry, Hannah :-) She is going to be busy this summer with swimming and gymnastics. She tries out for the gymnastics team the end of June. We are also getting together in June with Hannah's chinese sisters in Fishers, Indiana. This is always a good time!!! And she is going to be busy with mom this summer. Yes, I said "mom"!!! I am going to be a temporary "at-home" mom for the summer. So, I am hoping for a nice cool summer!!!

The next American Idol?

Hannah's bribery picture!!!

Just chillin' near Dad's garage

April Update (A Little Late)

Wow-it has been awhile since our last update. April seemed to come and go and we are already into May. All we can say is "Life Happens"!!! So we are going back into April for this update.

Easter landed in April this year so we will start there. Emily and Hannah went to the annual easter egg hunt a tthe town park. Hannah returned with a half bucket of eggs/candy in her bucket. I felt so bad for Emily as she had picked up 3 eggs and 1 piece of candy. One of her eggs was plastic and 2 were real. It had started to sprinkle a little so we decided to go home before the downpour of rain hit. As we are driving away, the girls open up the plastic eggs to see what kind of candy was inside. Emily's lonely plastic egg revealed a PRIZE EGG!!!!! Now, let me just tell you. I have been to that easter egg hunt ALL my life with my family and NONE has EVER found a prize egg. Emily picks up 3 eggs and just happens to pick up the prize egg!!! So we head to the American Legion to collect her prize and they were giving out free hot dogs, potato chips, and pop to not only the kids, but to the adults as well. My (Rusti's) mom is serving the hot dogs, my nice was serving the potato chips, my sister was pouring the pop, and my brother-in-law was taking the pictures of the event. You have to love a small town!!! Here are a couple pictures from that day.

Also in April, Hannah had a musical at her school. All the songs were related to recycling and taking care of the earth. All the kids even made an instrument from recycled goods. Hannah made a drum out of a gallon vegetable can. The teacher told all the kids they had to wear their "dress" clothes. Here are pictures of Hannah modeling in her clothes. Oh my............

And I think we told you about our new addition to the family, however, here is his first picture fo you to enjoy. This is "Sam K", our guinea pig. We had another but it did not work out as he seemed to be a biter and a fighter. Good thing he came with a 7 day guarantee. He went right back to Pets Plus!!!! Sam K is a good guinea pig though..... or as good as a guinea pig can be. He does seem to poop ALOT!!! But he is so cute and when you hold him and pet him, he purrs just like a kitten. Did I mention that he poops ALOT?

Emily-1st Gotcha Day Get-Together 2010

Gotcha Day Get Together 2010

This past weekend we traveled to Cincinnati (Home of the Bearcats) to meet with Emily’s travel group. We drove down Friday afternoon and after checking into the Holiday Inn Express in Sharonville and taking a short break (30 minutes) we met a lot of the group at the Blue Goose Sports bar for dinner, after a short wait we were all seated in the same area and had a great dinner. (Thanks Eric for going early to arrange this). After dinner we went back to the hotel and our Hannah and Hannah Gross just had to swim. On Saturday we met (with an even bigger group) at Larossa’s Pizza for lunch and a few cupcakes (thanks Felicia & Matt). After lunch we headed to Sharon Woods and the kids (and adults) visited and played all day, we couldn’t have asked for a nicer day for March. All the families are doing great, it’s amazing what real American food will do. After some family’s left we decided to go to I-Hop for dinner, us and three of the other family’s had a great dinner and then the sad part came, it was time to part ways. A little teary eyed we went back to the hotel and once again Hannah & Hannah had to swim. Sunday morning we had breakfast at the hotel with the Gross’s and then headed north towards home. We had a great weekend but it seemed way to short. It was great to see everyone again. Even Hannah had a great time with Emily’s “China Cousins” as she calls them and their siblings. The bond we share with both of our (very wonderful) travel groups is hard for some to imagine but as Kevin (Snuffy) says it’s like we have four sides to our family, we have his side, my side, Hannah’s group and Emily’s group. We also have some very wonderful neighbors, I guess that makes five sides. We are very blessed!!! We hope we can continue to keep these groups together and meet for a long time to come. Also I would like to say thank you for the hospitality of our Cincinnati families and thank you for all those who helped in the planning of the weekend and researching the hotels for us, everything was perfect !!!! We look forward to seeing everyone in July at the FTIA reunion. Maybe there will be three boys from Cincinnati (Bearcat Fans) sporting their new “NOTRE DAME FIGHTING IRISH” tee shirts.( We love you Shannon, Eric and boys as well as everyone in our groups) God bless everyone and have a great Easter.

Hannah and Hannah playing with Emily while waiting for spaghetti and pizza

Sadie "teaching" Emily

Emily sliding into Hannah, the monster of the playground

Hannah helping Jack on the bridge (Buddies)

1 YEAR FOR EMILY

It will be one year this Tuesday since we had Emily placed in our arms for the first time. In one way it seems like a dream, but in another, it seems like just a few months ago. She has changed so much. When we brought her home at 2 1/2 yrs old she was just wearing size 9 months pants. Now 1 year later, she is just growing out of size 18 month pants and wearing big 24 month pants. IT has been amazing to watch her change in such a short time. She is talking and playing ALL the time. This weekend we are traveling to see our travel group for the first time since last summer. I am sure all the kids have changed so much. We are so excited and it will be very nice to see them all.

Ever since Hannah met Emily, she has been the big sister to her. This includes being the bully of the two. We kept telling Hannah that one day EMily was going to grow up and was going to "get her back" for all the "things" her sister has done to her. I was taking a picture of the two in the bathtub and Hannah was doing her usual pose when Emily finally got her. Well, it looks like she got the best of Hannah this time!!! SISTERLY LOVE!!!

NEW ADDITION TO THE FAMILY!!!

We are pleased to announce our newest member to the Chlebowski family. THis is "SAM K". I do not know how Hannah came up with the name but she was determined to give him this name. He is a 2 month old guinnea pig. We figured it was this or a dog and since we are not home all day, the guinnea pig won out. (Plus he is nocturnal so he sleeps all day when we are at work/school) In a couple weeks he will be getting a "companion" so he is not lonely in the cage. Wonder what his name will be. Yes-it will be a "he" as we do not want a bunch of lil' baby Sam Ks running around.

Just a quick update on Emily'. We had her tongue follow-up appointment and all seems to be doing well. She continues to develop the muscles in her tongue. The surgeon feels this may take up to a year. For example, she is able to stick her tongue out more but does not seem to be able to lick her lips. Her language is getting better. We often have difficulties understanding her but I think this is just being "3". We signed her up for preschool so she can be around children her own age. We did keep her back one year so she will be starting kindergarten at an older age. From the kids we saw going into her class, she still is the smallest of the kids. And she appears to be the most out-going of the bunch.

And a quick update on Hannah. She received her report card and was on the A/B honor roll again. She seems to be counting the days until summer break. She has her first musical this week. She is singing 5 songs and playing a home-made drum to a recycle song. She continues to be doing her gymnastics. She is almost able to do her back handspring on her own. Her coach feels she can do it on her own but she seems to be afraid of falling on her head. hmmmmmmm. We re traveling in June to see her "China Sisters". Her latest "thing" is reading Harry Potter. Have you seen these books? WOW!!! Big books with big words. She seems to understand them though. She continues to love anything to do with wizards and wizardry. We have been able to keep this on a level of Harry Potter and Wizards of Waverly Place though. I ask her often to use her wand to make the clothes fold themselves, but no luck yet........

Until the next update-be safe and healthy-and know that you are loved!!!

February Update

February in the Chlebowski household has been..........interesting!!! Hannah continued with her light case of the chicken pox. She had about 20 pox on her whole body!!! Now let us tell you-she had the vaccine for chicken pox 2 times. She had the vaccine in China but due to poor records of her vaccines and the amount of serum she received, she received the vaccines a second time!!! Santa Clause got Hannah a guitar for Christmas and she has been strumming to Taylor Swift songs in effort to survive the boredom of having chicken pox . Even though she has been playing with the guitar since Christmas, the picture looks better than it sounded, really :-). I think we may need to beg her Uncle Scott for some basic lessons, but until then, she seems to be having fun with it.

Hannah missed a week of gymnastics due to having the chiclen pox, but the next week was "watch week". This means I can go upstairs and take pictures!!! Hannah is in a bluish leotard in the bottom (3rd) row behind the girl in the green/black leotard.

A new family picture is taken!!! All the adoption families know what this means-HOMESTUDY UPDATE. Our 1 year update for Emily's adoption. WOW-where did that year go? Since our 6 month homestudy update, Emily (3 yrs old) has grown 2 inches (35inches), but appears to have not gained any weight (26.5). We had a family picture taken for the 6 month report, however, they were asking for a new and different photo. So thanks to one of our wonderful neighbors who was able to get a decent family photo the day before the homestudy appointment!!! Here is our "new" family picture.

When Hannah had the chicken pox, everyone was telling us that she had them light because she had the vaccine. Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm. Guess what? The second week starts off and Emily REALLY broke out with the chicken pox. Vaccine, hmmmmm. She actually had to have the vaccine in China before we could take her out of the country to return home (thanks to the Hague Treaty) She had a fever for days and the spots just multiplied every day. I took several pictures of her skin. Here is one of her face when they jsut started to show up. As of today they are pretty well done and scabbed over. During the "high-itch" period she was so cute. We told her to try not to scratch herself with her nails so she moved around the house leaning on the furniture and walls.

Due to the chicken pox, her follow-up appt for her tongue surgery has been changed to February 25.