IF THERE EVER COMES A DAY WHEN WE CAN'T BE TOGETHER, KEEP ME IN YOUR HEART-I'LL BE THERE FOREVER!!!

Sunday, June 14, 2009

Busy, Busy, Busy!!!


Hannah just finished up a week of basketball camp. We have not really played much at home so I was unsure how she would do, but she really liked it and she is pretty good. She worked on defensive skills and shooting. And for all you boys in the family-watch out because she does not shoot like a girl. And thanks to the Piechocki family she now has a really nice basketball hoop to play at home. (Thanks Susie-you are her hero!!!)






Monday Hannah started gymnastics camp. She has team try-outs on Saturday. This picture is her on the low bar.

Emily continues to grow and adjust to just about everything. Her excitement over new things is overwhelming. She is learning to drink out of a regular cup instead of a sippy cup. She is starting to throw a play ball even though sometimes she throws it behind herself and then looks at me as if saying "where did it go". She has found she loves blueberries, watermelon, cantelope, and anything with sugar and carbohydrates in it especially suckers and pasta. She loves to play with her sister and refuses to go to bed at night without a "night-night" kiss.

We did find out that Emily is going to need a surgery. It was noticed by Marie when we were eating at our favorite local Chinese restaurant. Emily was not using her tongue to move her food around and when asked she was not able to stick her tongue out. After getting the second opinion from an oral surgeon, it was confirmed that she is tongue-tied. The funky skin flap under our tongues it actually connected all the way to the tip of her tongue causing it not to be able to move much in her mouth. This impedes her ability to chew and swallow her food as well as form words effectively. The oral surgeon gave us 2 options. 1) Surgery now, but she is too little for anesthesia and the use of the newer laser technique. This means they would need to tie her down, use scissors to do the cut and several stitches under her tongue. Or 2) Wait until she is just a little bigger when she can be "put under" with anesthesia and use a laser which results in no stitches. The down fall of this is that it means longer for her to not be able to chew effectively. Right now she often needs to spit her food out and/or push it off the top palette to the back of her throat to swallow. And of course continued difficulties in learning proper phonics, which right now she is either babbling or speaking Chinese-we can not tell. After talking about the options with the oral surgeon, the decision was made to wait 6 months and see if we could use the anesthesia. I have to also admit that to tie her down may just also bring back memories of her life in the orphanage as this is what they do when they need an IV to treat colds/flus. I did not want her to relive this or lose the trust factor we have earned in the last 2 months. So I guess we will have to write an update on this in 6 months (just before Christmas).

Thursday, May 28, 2009

This girl has spirit!!!

65 days ago we seen this child for the first time. There were no smiles on her face and she seemed to have very little life in her soul. Today I took these pictures and see the love and the joy in her spirit. She smiles and laughs most of the day. She is learning to play and enjoys those she is around. She sure has life in her soul now!!! What a beautiful child and a wonderful addition to our family.

Wednesday, May 27, 2009

Life is Good!!!

During waking hours Hannah and Emily are usually together. They play together and sleep together (as long as there is no school the next day as they seem to do more playing than sleeping). Life is good!!!

Tuesday, May 12, 2009

50 Days-AMAZING!!!


Today it has been 50 days since we first held Emily. This little girl has changed so much in these 50 days. She fits perfectly with our family and has been an absolute joy. It really is amazing to see what healthy food and love can do for a child. Our doctor is amazed this is the same girl he saw when she first came home and we are amazed at how she is adjusting to her new life. Others in our travel group have mentioned how our trip to get our children now seems like a dream: What a wonderful dream to come true!!!

Sunday, May 10, 2009

Mother's Day 2009

You know you are truley blessed when you are awaken by two little girls kissing you on the cheek!!! Today was Mother's Day and they were ready. Hannah and Emily not only gave me kisses to wake me up this morning but they took me for breakfast and gave me "gifts". As the pictures show, I was given a nice card with 2 pictures inside. One picture is a picture of my 2 daughters and the other picture is thanking me for all I do. She then gave me a coupon book. There are 5 coupons: 1) 100 hugs 2) Take out the trash 9 times 3) Help in the kitchen 100 times 4) Clean her room 99 times 5) Feed our pets (fish) 91 times. How precious is that!!! Now I know how my mom and dad felt when I gave them the coupon book I made for them!!! We stayed at home and had "family day" as we seem to all be suffering from a cold. We ended the day grilling steaks as the rain came in. I love being a mom!!!
This Mothers Day evening I now sit here and think of the women in China that made my Mothers Day possible. They gave their children up for their own reasons that we may not know nor understand. I imagine that their hearts must ache as they wonder what ever happened to these "lost girls from China". I do pray on this Mother's Day that these women can be overcome with a comforting and peaceful feeling that these children are safe and loved unconditionally.

Friday, May 8, 2009

Emily Is Now An Official United States Citizen!!!!

Emily became an United States Citizen the day we returned home and handed over her paperwork to immigration at the O'Hare Airport in Chicago, but we have now officially received her certificate of citizenship!!! Let's hear it for Emily Mei Chlebowski!!! Our next step is to apply for her social security number. Then register her adoption and apply for her United States passport. Whew!!!
For all those who read our last post and are wondering what we are feeding Emily-EVERYTHING. This child eats everything out there and she eats ALL the time unless we hold it back. She loves everything from cookies to vegetables. It is ALL about the food and we really have not denied her anything!!! Her favorite foods are anything loaded with carbohydrates. Her favorites to be pancakes, pasta, Cheetos, cereal, cookies, chocolate, and suckers.

Thursday, May 7, 2009

Emily's Doctor Appointment

Emily had her official doctor appointment this week. Some of you may remember that we took Emily to the doctor the morning after we returned to USA. We got an antibiotic to "kill" off a nasty cold bug that the Chinese antibiotic did not get rid of and we got an official height and weight on her. This doctor appointment was her complete physical. The doctor told us Emily is developing very well. He was actually surprised this was the same little girl he saw a month ago. He commented that she has a different look to her. He said she smiles without forcing it and he said her cheeks are "fuller" now too. She was jabbering non-stop and at times we actually understood her. He stated that China done very well with her shots as she has all her recommended shots and doses (and a few extras) and does not need any more until she enters kindergarten. And the excellent news he gave us is that she has gained 1 pound and has grown 2 inches in the 1 month she has been home!!! She does not register on the American growth chart yet but is close to the 15 percentile on the Chinese growth chart. The doctor predicts her to be around 5ft 4inches in her adult life. This is pretty good considering her "special need" was delayed physical growth most likely related to a premature birth.